"I Like You, But..." - Who's The Biggest A**hole?! | Am I The A**hole? | Jimmy Carr

Quick Overview

The panel ultimately judges that Ryan, who bailed on his friend at a wine bar because the friend ordered a beer instead of wine, is the biggest ahole for being overly judgmental about his friend's beverage choice, despite the friend being a paying customer who was also trying to prove a point about the wine bar's strictness.

Key Points: Ryan bailed on his friend at a wine bar because the friend ordered a beer instead of wine, which the friend claimed was to prove a point about the bar's pretentiousness. The friend who ordered the beer allegedly consumed 13 sausages at the hotel breakfast buffet, which the panel considered excessive, though not necessarily greedy. Jimmy Carr pointed out that the friend's behavior (ordering a beer at a wine bar and drinking 13 sausages) suggests an 'ahole mood' or an issue of pride/pettiness. The female panelist agreed that being offended by someone's choice of drink (beer vs. wine) is petty, but noted it could be worse, referencing a story about a friend who got beaten up for wearing penguin pajamas. Paul (the friend who ordered the beer) stated he only drinks wine when he goes out and that if others order beer, he tries to keep it to himself, but admitted he doesn't want his friend to be an ahole. The final judgment leans towards Ryan being the ahole for caring more about proving the wine bar was pretentious than supporting his friend's action, even though the friend was a paying customer. The panel discussed the friend's behavior of licking the last sausage at breakfast and trying to keep eye contact while doing so, which was also considered pretentious.

Context: This clip is from the Comedy Central panel show "Jimmy Carr's: Am I The Ahole?" where contestants present moral dilemmas or questionable actions to a panel (including Jimmy Carr) and the audience to determine who acted as the ahole. The discussion revolves around scenarios involving social etiquette, minor betrayals, and perceived pettiness, specifically focusing on one friend bailing on another at a wine bar over a drink order.