# "I Like You, But..." - Who's The Biggest A**hole?! | Am I The A**hole? | Jimmy Carr Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=80kadCkqt8c Recap page: https://rapidrecap.app/video/80kadCkqt8c Generated: 2025-11-29T13:32:53.383+00:00 --- ## Quick Overview The panel ultimately judges that Ryan, who bailed on his friend at a wine bar because the friend ordered a beer instead of wine, is the biggest a**hole for being overly judgmental about his friend's beverage choice, despite the friend being a paying customer who was also trying to prove a point about the wine bar's strictness. **Key Points:** - Ryan bailed on his friend at a wine bar because the friend ordered a beer instead of wine, which the friend claimed was to prove a point about the bar's pretentiousness. - The friend who ordered the beer allegedly consumed 13 sausages at the hotel breakfast buffet, which the panel considered excessive, though not necessarily greedy. - Jimmy Carr pointed out that the friend's behavior (ordering a beer at a wine bar and drinking 13 sausages) suggests an 'a**hole mood' or an issue of pride/pettiness. - The female panelist agreed that being offended by someone's choice of drink (beer vs. wine) is petty, but noted it could be worse, referencing a story about a friend who got beaten up for wearing penguin pajamas. - Paul (the friend who ordered the beer) stated he only drinks wine when he goes out and that if others order beer, he tries to keep it to himself, but admitted he doesn't want his friend to be an a**hole. - The final judgment leans towards Ryan being the a**hole for caring more about proving the wine bar was pretentious than supporting his friend's action, even though the friend was a paying customer. - The panel discussed the friend's behavior of licking the last sausage at breakfast and trying to keep eye contact while doing so, which was also considered pretentious. ![Screenshot at 00:05: The guest with the beard \(later identified as the one who bailed\) describes his friend's greed, stating, "this guy is so greedy he could eat all these sausages," setting up the context for why he might have been offended by the friend's actions.](https://ss.rapidrecap.app/screens/80kadCkqt8c/00-00-05.png) **Context:** This clip is from the Comedy Central panel show "Jimmy Carr's: Am I The A**hole?" where contestants present moral dilemmas or questionable actions to a panel (including Jimmy Carr) and the audience to determine who acted as the a**hole. The discussion revolves around scenarios involving social etiquette, minor betrayals, and perceived pettiness, specifically focusing on one friend bailing on another at a wine bar over a drink order. ## Detailed Analysis The segment features a dilemma where one person (Ryan) bailed on his friend at a wine bar because the friend ordered a beer instead of wine, claiming he was doing it to prove the bar was pretentious. The friend who was bailed on recounted that he had eaten 13 sausages at a hotel breakfast buffet earlier. The panel, including Jimmy Carr, Jordan, and the other guests, debated the level of pettiness involved. Jimmy Carr suggested the friend ordering beer exhibited an 'a**hole mood' and that Ryan's reaction was an issue of pride. The female panelist agreed that offense over drink choice was petty, but mentioned a worse story about someone wearing penguin pajamas. The friend who ordered the beer (Paul) clarified that he usually only drinks wine in public but didn't want his friend to be an a**hole. The discussion also touched on the friend licking the last sausage at breakfast while maintaining eye contact. Ultimately, the panel decided Ryan was the a**hole for prioritizing proving his point about the bar's pretentiousness over supporting his friend's actions, even though the friend was a paying customer. ### The Initial Dilemma - The guest with the beard recounts his friend ordering a beer at a wine bar to prove the bar was pretentious, leading the guest to bail on him - The friend who ordered the beer mentions having eaten 13 sausages at breakfast, which the panel finds excessive but not necessarily greedy. ### Panel Debate on Pettiness - Jimmy Carr labels the situation as an 'a**hole mood' rooted in pride - The female panelist finds offense over drink choice petty, contrasting it with a more extreme story involving penguin pajamas. ### Paul's Perspective - Paul explains he usually drinks wine socially but didn't want his friend to be an a**hole, contrasting his behavior with his friend's actions (like licking the last sausage while maintaining eye contact). ### Final Judgment - Jimmy Carr concludes that Ryan (the one who bailed) is the a**hole because he prioritized proving a point about the bar's pretentiousness over supporting his friend, despite the friend being a paying customer. ![Screenshot at 00:00: The guest with the beard starts recounting the story, gesturing about being offended by his friend's actions.](https://ss.rapidrecap.app/screens/80kadCkqt8c/00-00-00.png) ![Screenshot at 00:09: The audience reacts with laughter to the unfolding story involving the friend's extreme breakfast consumption.](https://ss.rapidrecap.app/screens/80kadCkqt8c/00-00-09.png) ![Screenshot at 00:28: Jimmy Carr, seated at the desk, interjects to confirm that the food-related issue \(sausages banned in theaters\) is completely banned.](https://ss.rapidrecap.app/screens/80kadCkqt8c/00-00-28.png) ![Screenshot at 00:48: Jimmy Carr questions the initial premise, asking if the friend's behavior of licking the last sausage while maintaining eye contact constitutes being an a\*\*hole.](https://ss.rapidrecap.app/screens/80kadCkqt8c/00-00-48.png) ![Screenshot at 01:37: The female panelist smiles and responds to Jimmy Carr's comment about flirting, indicating amusement at the situation.](https://ss.rapidrecap.app/screens/80kadCkqt8c/00-01-37.png)